i don’t want to be a part of a college system where plagiarism is a worse crime than rape
|—||Attachments, Rainbow Rowell (via psych-facts)|
Submitted by ellen-the-mellon: I thought this was perfect for this website. Follow these rules, they will transform your life !
|—||International Human Rights Activist Michael Simmons offered these words (via Facebook) in response to the May 3, 2014 New York Times’ “Fight Against Sex Assaults Holds Colleges to Account” article. (via scottthepilgrim)|
|—||Tom Gates (via psych-facts)|
In 98% of domestic violence cases, financial abuse keeps victims trapped. Kerry Washington has a plan to help stop that.
One question we get a lot is, “If you’re in a serious relationship, do you have to have sex?”
No. Sexual intercourse is just ONE way a person can express their sexuality and their feelings toward their partner. In a relationship, both partners should communicate what they want and what their boundaries are. Both partners have the right to abstain from sex or practice safer sex, but if one person is not ready to have sexual intercourse, then the COUPLE is not ready.
Yes! If you’re not ready, that’s ok, and your partner should respect that! If the person you’re with is every pressuring you to go further than you want, the relationship shift might need a tune up—no matter how much you love them.
it’s not your job to entertain him by sending him nudes
it’s not your job to satisfy him sexually because he’s horny
you are not required to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don’t want to do
don’t be scared of “losing him”
he most likely wasn’t anything worth keeping
This was me for the longest time. I felt obligated to do whatever he asked.
Found a quote that shuts down that “not all men” argument pretty well. (via mykicks)
AHaha. haaaa. hh.
Things not to say to someone who self-harms:
- “I’ve seen worse.” This is super invalidating and will make them feel terrible, and may compel them to self-harm more severely. Self-harm is self-harm, and it is serious.
- “You’re doing it for attention.” Chances are that, no,…